Ask Sasha #005 | "What happens if you are not attracted to a client?"

"What happens if you are not attracted to a client?"

I think this is a really powerful question and I want honour it by being a truthful as possible.

I think it maybe one of those questions that a client might think about but would be far too polite or perhaps too nervous to actually ask.

It’s a perfectly reasonable question but it's not what the foundations of professional companionship are built on. For me personally, incalls are built on chemistry, intimacy and connection. It is the fantasy being brought to life in real time with trust and connection. This is what escorting is about.

Physical attraction is a very human emotion and it cannot be faked. People say to me all the time "Oh I couldn't do your job, I have to fancy to the people I sleep with" and that's a fair point, but the main point they are missing is that sexual chemistry and intimacy super trumps attraction every time and I genuinely mean that.

Physical attraction and sexual chemistry are very different. The majority of clients totally understand the dynamic and this conversation never happens.

After two decades of seeing clients from all backgrounds, all levels of experience, all shapes and sizes, one thing I know for sure is... I do not have to be physically attracted to someone to have an amazing session. What I thrive on is honesty, connection, trust, intimacy, openness... the fact that a client is confiding in me, trusting me with his fantasy, giving me the chance to bring it to life... that gives me a boner right there!!!

You will notice that I don't screen my clients, I don't ask for photos and there is a reason behind that. Firstly, asking a client for a face pic seems totally wrong to me as it completely takes away the discretion element and I strongly advise against ever sending photos to escorts. Secondly, as much as I try to make this a personal as possible, I am an escort and the nature of the business is simple, the client is paying for my time regardless of what they look like and regardless of their age or background.

Trust me when I say this... sexual chemistry and the intimacy that comes from that is all that matters to me and from my experience it is the basis for the very best sessions.